How I learned to make my life and my clients' lives interconnected and joyful.
The life of my clients = my life.
Just a couple of months ago, I was reluctant to work with clients.
It felt more like "tension" to me.
Plus, I had MY own life, and it seemed like I had to set aside my life—my own affairs—and go work with clients.
The life of my clients = my life.
Just a couple of months ago, I was reluctant to work with clients.
How I overcame internal barriers and found my path to self-improvement.
On July 25, 2023, I wrote to a certain Elena asking her to do a session for me because my friend recommended her as someone who could help me understand my relationship with my daughter.
I knew almost nothing about GSR.
Although later I remembered that I had seen comments from bloggers somewhere saying that only GSR could help, and I recall googling it and finding some strange website about male growth.
Well, okay, I forgot about it.
On July 25, 2023, I wrote to a certain Elena asking her to do a session for me because my friend recommended her as someone who could help me understand my relationship with my daughter.
I knew almost nothing about GSR.
How I helped my students reach a new level and work online from anywhere.
When my accompanied ones go to the second module, it's a special taste of happiness 🥹✨
A lot of people have come to the GSR system whom I once introduced to it.
Through sessions, through stories, through the first module, through some of my projects, recommendations, through helping curators gather groups for the first module, just through communication ❤️
And every time, it brings me immense joy to see how a person first comes to a session with me or with colleagues I recommended, then buys the first module, starts practicing, enters the ES… and then their life begins to expand 🌱✨
There are indeed many such stories.
Long before the expert flow and the experts themselves appeared in the GSR system, I created the project "Big Steps to the Dream Life." There, we worked with practices from the first module 🙌
And back then, about 80% of the participants from that project became specialists in the second module 😳
Many of my acquaintances, friends, and colleagues from my previous profession - in music, education, and vocal environments - became practitioners of the first module, clients of the system, second-module specialists, and even experts ❤️
And this has always been and still is something incredibly valuable to me.
But now I caught myself thinking that there is an even more special joy 🥹
Literally tomorrow, a new flow of the second module starts, and two of my accompanied ones are going there ✨
And for some reason, this brings me a separate happiness, like that of the expert.
When my accompanied ones go to the second module, it's a special taste of happiness 🥹✨
A lot of people have come to the GSR system whom I once introduced to it.
Through sessions, through stories, through the first module, through some of my projects, recommendations, through helping curators gather groups for the first module, just through communication ❤️
And every time, it brings me immense joy to see how a person first comes to a session with me or with colleagues I recommended, then buys the first module, starts practicing, enters the ES… and then their life begins to expand 🌱✨
There are indeed many such stories.
How I revived my career and improved family relationships after 7 years of maternity leave.
I want to share my changes and results from the expert support with Dmitry Varnakov @Dmitry_Varnakov.
I joined Dmitry's expert support in February 2025 and set my goals.
A little over a year later, it's interesting to see where I’ve come:
● Work📈
I hadn’t worked for 7 years; yes, I gave birth to my daughter and was on maternity leave, but I feel that wasn’t the main reason.
I worked on my issues regarding work quite a lot during my 4 years in GSR, both on my own and with experts, but as soon as I started to even look in the direction of work, either my daughter or I would get sick, or other obstacles and situations would arise, and I couldn’t get back to work.
I want to share my changes and results from the expert support with Dmitry Varnakov @Dmitry_Varnakov.
I joined Dmitry's expert support in February 2025 and set my goals.
How I helped a client regain passion for life through dance and maintain her career.
How dancing almost ruined my real estate career 🏡 💃
Sometimes in one meeting, I conduct several sessions for clients at the price of one – and I consider this absolutely normal ✨
This happens when a person comes with one request, but after the first session, either their state doesn’t change completely, or the symptom has formally disappeared, but inside, they still don’t feel happiness and relief.
For example, today a regular client came with the request: “I can’t find the energy to work.
Clients are waiting, but I literally can’t force myself to work.”
And here’s what’s interesting - the symptom sounded like:
I don’t want to work, I only want to dance
💃 🤣
The thing is, recently, after several of our sessions, the client rediscovered her love for dancing.
She used to take it very seriously, but then she abandoned it and focused on her real estate work.
How dancing almost ruined my real estate career 🏡 💃
Sometimes in one meeting, I conduct several sessions for clients at the price of one – and I consider this absolutely normal ✨
This happens when a person comes with one request, but after the first session, either their state doesn’t change completely, or the symptom has formally disappeared, but inside, they still don’t feel happiness and relief.
For example, today a regular client came with the request: “I can’t find the energy to work.
How to restore respect and harmony in relationships, dealing with male tantrums.
IF A MAN IS "HYSTERICAL"
Periodically, my clients tell me a story about how their husband "hysterically reacts out of nowhere." That is, he starts shouting, getting irritated suddenly, for no reason.
And it seems completely inadequate.
He explodes over some trivial things that aren't worth a dime, as they say.
And it "drives him crazy."
At the same time, the woman stops respecting her man.
IF A MAN IS "HYSTERICAL"
Periodically, my clients tell me a story about how their husband "hysterically reacts out of nowhere." That is, he starts shouting, getting irritated suddenly, for no reason.
And it seems completely inadequate.
How I learned to appreciate moments of real life and return to myself.
Reverence
Today, a woman came to me.
For the last 20 years, her self-esteem has been methodically crushed, year after year.
As a result — the highest degree of insecurity, encased in armor: in how she looks, how she speaks, and even how she breathes.
We worked together.
Reverence
Today, a woman came to me.
For the last 20 years, her self-esteem has been methodically crushed, year after year.
How I helped a client move from inaction to inner confidence and responsibility for her life.
Recently, I wrote about cognitive distortions, and I decided to describe how my client with anxiety has changed after three sessions.
It feels like a bit of a shift from that focus.
Yesterday, my client came to me for her fourth session.
I saw how much she had changed during the first three sessions:
In the first session, the client did not connect her external reality with her feelings at all; she couldn't look into her feelings and didn't understand how to do it.
Recently, I wrote about cognitive distortions, and I decided to describe how my client with anxiety has changed after three sessions.
It feels like a bit of a shift from that focus.
How I gained new strength and confidence in my abilities through a unique setup.
Today, on the second day of training, we had our settings done.
🔥🔥🔥 It was very nerve-wracking while I was waiting for my turn.
And all this time, Dmitry kept telling us about the mega important and valuable tricks in the work of a GSR specialist.
I tried to listen and, at the same time, absorb the setting in the best way possible, relaxing and surrendering to the flow.
Today, on the second day of training, we had our settings done.
🔥🔥🔥 It was very nerve-wracking while I was waiting for my turn.