How workplace relationships changed in 2 weeks after comprehensive work with a psychologist
I just love it… I spent 6 sessions explaining to a client at length that we were working comprehensively toward his goal:
✔️ removing gaps in SR—which will stabilize his inner state
✔️ then we will do adequatization work on SR, SCh, and the structure—this will help improve his interactions with people at work
And what do I get in the end?
“CAN SESSIONS REALLY HAVE THAT EFFECT??”
No, damn it🤬 you spent a whole year clashing with everyone at work, you got demoted, and they are pushing you toward being fired… And the fact that everything changed in 2 weeks while we were fixing you up is a complete coincidence.
I wish all of us the ability to track results in real life 🤍
I just love it… I spent 6 sessions explaining to a client at length that we were working comprehensively toward his goal:
✔️ removing gaps in SR—which will stabilize his inner state
✔️ then we will do adequatization work on SR, SCh, and the structure—this will help improve his interactions with people at work
And what do I get in the end?
“CAN SESSIONS REALLY HAVE THAT EFFECT??”
No, damn it🤬 you spent a whole year clashing with everyone at work, you got demoted, and they are pushing you toward being fired… And the fact that everything changed in 2 weeks while we were fixing you up is a complete coincidence.
How a client saw reality and stopped destroying the world around him
The beginning of the story is in this post (clickable)
Next, we fixed this client's barrier to his goal, and he started feeling really bad.
I received this feedback the next day: “All evening after the session, I felt a kind of apathy.
I have no idea where I'm heading, what for, or why"
I'll describe how the client perceived reality and himself in it BEFORE/AFTER our work.
BEFORE: at his current job, he would show all his new bosses that, to put it mildly, they weren't very smart guys—idiots.
The beginning of the story is in this post (clickable)
Next, we fixed this client's barrier to his goal, and he started feeling really bad.
I received this feedback the next day: “All evening after the session, I felt a kind of apathy.
How I changed my career and found the perfect job with PGki and GSR
Officially declaring - PGki work.
Here are my 2 cases:
✔️ 1.5 years ago I started a new job launching a partnership direction.
And there EVERYTHING went NOT LIKE THAT.
Everything we discussed in interviews was canceled.
Officially declaring - PGki work.
Here are my 2 cases:
✔️ 1.5 years ago I started a new job launching a partnership direction.
How I combine work, family, and development with GSR
Today my mom bought me sleeping pills.
She decided that I sleep too much, do nothing while sitting at home on my remote job, and this needs to be fixed.
WHAT????
The joke is that I'm currently doing way more than ever in my life:
✔️ I have a full-time job
✔️ A young school-age child + 6 extracurricular activities (other moms of school kids will understand…)
✔️ I work with clients as a GSR specialist
✔️ I'm undergoing training, currently on social media and AI topics
✔️ I went through the previous 2 GSR Academy flows without breaks.
Today my mom bought me sleeping pills.
She decided that I sleep too much, do nothing while sitting at home on my remote job, and this needs to be fixed.
How a random conversation turned into a warm exchange of impressions
✅ Today I tried to build contact by focuses of a new GSR flow.
I sent the utility bill to the guy who rents my apartment.
Our usual dialogue:
- hello, here's the bill
- hello, here's the receipt for it
But today he sent me a video showing that he arrived at SberUniversity and how thrilled he is about it.
I worked there for 3 years, and I immediately felt nostalgia 🤍
I sent him a photo of airplanes from the airport, showing that I'm currently flying to Ingushetia.
✅ Today I tried to build contact by focuses of a new GSR flow.
I sent the utility bill to the guy who rents my apartment.
How I understood the importance of the expert on the path to my goals
What a shock I had when we met with GSR practitioners and I found out that not everyone considers expert accompaniment to be mandatory.
Why is an expert needed?
✔️ When solving problems - shows deeper points, which a person often does not want to look at or is not able to look at.
✔️ When moving toward a goal - helps to move along the resource and maintain focus.
What a shock I had when we met with GSR practitioners and I found out that not everyone considers expert accompaniment to be mandatory.
Why is an expert needed?
How I accepted my new self and found inner space to achieve goals.
Today I did a goal adjustment for MЖ.
In the symptom: the inability to step out of my box.
Such a step felt like fear, like a complete reconstruction, the dissolution of me and the emergence of someone else who is NOT me anymore.
After working through the symptom:
Old, irrelevant self-perceptions faded away, and I accepted that I have changed significantly recently.
Today I did a goal adjustment for MЖ.
In the symptom: the inability to step out of my box.
