How to create harmony in a child's soul through the acceptance of a second parent.
Our children are made up of their mom and dad; these are the two most important parts of a child's inner world, the foundation of their psyche.
If there is misunderstanding, complex feelings, or conflict between the parents in reality, the child feels all of this as their own internal experiences.
In their psyche, these are not feelings about the parents; they are feelings about themselves and their place in this world.
Nowadays, it is not uncommon for parents to come to GSR sessions with children who do not want to live, who shut themselves off from their parents, and only write about their pain in their diaries… Some smoke, poisoning themselves, while others isolate themselves in loneliness, not even communicating with their peers… When I ask a mother about her child's feelings towards their father, I often hear in response: "Everything is fine, I don't feel anything anymore, it was a long time ago, it's all grown over..." But then, if one looks more closely within themselves, complex feelings arise.
If there is misunderstanding, complex feelings, or conflict between the parents in reality, the child feels all of this as their own internal experiences.
In their psyche, these are not feelings about the parents; they are feelings about themselves and their place in this world.
Nowadays, it is not uncommon for parents to come to GSR sessions with children who do not want to live, who shut themselves off from their parents, and only write about their pain in their diaries… Some smoke, poisoning themselves, while others isolate themselves in loneliness, not even communicating with their peers… When I ask a mother about her child's feelings towards their father, I often hear in response: "Everything is fine, I don't feel anything anymore, it was a long time ago, it's all grown over..." But then, if one looks more closely within themselves, complex feelings arise.
Our children are made up of their mom and dad; these are the two most important parts of a child's inner world, the foundation of their psyche.
If there is misunderstanding, complex feelings, or conflict between the parents in reality, the child feels all of this as their own internal experiences.
If there is misunderstanding, complex feelings, or conflict between the parents in reality, the child feels all of this as their own internal experiences.