How to transform your feelings and relationships through inner work.
At the session, many women come with stories about their pain and grievances towards men.
About their jealousy, feeling undervalued, about lack of love… Each one feels that “I feel this way because of him”… and then we insert the relevant situation: he looks elsewhere, is more interested in his gadget or the TV than in me, doesn’t hear or understand me, hurts or ignores me… A woman thinks that what she feels is caused by her partner's behavior.
If his behavior changes, her feelings will change too.
But everything in our psyche is arranged differently: we feel what is already embedded in us (passed down from our ancestors, family scripts), then we choose a partner who perfectly fits the role for playing out these tendencies, and then we project our internal states onto him… And the whole world is a theater, and we are all actors in it… Everything is heading in the same direction as it did for our great-grandmothers.
About their jealousy, feeling undervalued, about lack of love… Each one feels that “I feel this way because of him”… and then we insert the relevant situation: he looks elsewhere, is more interested in his gadget or the TV than in me, doesn’t hear or understand me, hurts or ignores me… A woman thinks that what she feels is caused by her partner's behavior.
If his behavior changes, her feelings will change too.
But everything in our psyche is arranged differently: we feel what is already embedded in us (passed down from our ancestors, family scripts), then we choose a partner who perfectly fits the role for playing out these tendencies, and then we project our internal states onto him… And the whole world is a theater, and we are all actors in it… Everything is heading in the same direction as it did for our great-grandmothers.
At the session, many women come with stories about their pain and grievances towards men.
About their jealousy, feeling undervalued, about lack of love… Each one feels that “I feel this way because of him”… and then we insert the relevant situation: he looks elsewhere, is more interested in his gadget or the TV than in me, doesn’t hear or understand me, hurts or ignores me… A woman thinks that what she feels is caused by her partner's behavior.
About their jealousy, feeling undervalued, about lack of love… Each one feels that “I feel this way because of him”… and then we insert the relevant situation: he looks elsewhere, is more interested in his gadget or the TV than in me, doesn’t hear or understand me, hurts or ignores me… A woman thinks that what she feels is caused by her partner's behavior.