How I Changed My Attitude Towards My Daughter and Freed Myself from Resentments.
The client came to the session feeling anxious about her daughter, grappling with the feeling of being a "bad mother": "I often scold and get angry at my child for disobedience, and I don't give enough warmth and attention due to my busyness." After the session, she felt a sense of hope for change in her parenting, and the burden of resentment lifted.
Here’s her feedback after the session: "All the trends discussed in the session were recognizable: • I don’t remember my father from my childhood (only my mother was around, and it felt like he was never there).
Upon reflection, I realized that he himself doesn’t know what a father is—he never experienced paternal care/love/affection in his life, and he doesn’t know how to give that to his child.
• Resentment in my life is a key point; this feeling has been passed down from my grandmother to my mother, and from my mother to me… For a while, I often heard my mother express resentment towards her mother/husband/mother-in-law.
Here’s her feedback after the session: "All the trends discussed in the session were recognizable: • I don’t remember my father from my childhood (only my mother was around, and it felt like he was never there).
Upon reflection, I realized that he himself doesn’t know what a father is—he never experienced paternal care/love/affection in his life, and he doesn’t know how to give that to his child.
• Resentment in my life is a key point; this feeling has been passed down from my grandmother to my mother, and from my mother to me… For a while, I often heard my mother express resentment towards her mother/husband/mother-in-law.
The client came to the session feeling anxious about her daughter, grappling with the feeling of being a "bad mother": "I often scold and get angry at my child for disobedience, and I don't give enough warmth and attention due to my busyness." After the session, she felt a sense of hope for change in her parenting, and the burden of resentment lifted.
Here’s her feedback after the session: "All the trends discussed in the session were recognizable: • I don’t remember my father from my childhood (only my mother was around, and it felt like he was never there).
Here’s her feedback after the session: "All the trends discussed in the session were recognizable: • I don’t remember my father from my childhood (only my mother was around, and it felt like he was never there).